FAQ
Short, honest answers to what couples ask us most. Can't find yours? We're one email away.
Parfect is a private app for exactly two people: you and your partner. It combines an intimate chat with a shared photo gallery, a weekly check-in question, a space for sharing fantasies, wishes you give each other, a date planner, and a shared bucket list — with no feeds, no followers, and no audience.
Any couple that wants to stay close on purpose: new couples building habits, parents trying to stay partners and not just co-parents, long-distance couples, and people married for decades. If you're two people who choose each other, it's for you.
No. Parfect is the opposite of a dating app — it starts where dating apps end. There's no discovery, no matching with strangers, and no profiles to browse. You pair with one person: yours.
Yes. Parfect runs on both iOS and Android, and pairing works across platforms — one of you can be on iPhone and the other on Android without losing any features.
A wish is something you'd love your partner to do — plan a cozy dinner, a walk, a surprise at home. Your partner sees it, accepts it, and marks it done when it has happened. Wishes stay open until they're done, so there's no pressure to rush.
Yes, if you want to. Couple spaces let two couples who know each other connect with a code and share an end-to-end encrypted chat and photos. The space only opens after all four people accept, and anyone can leave at any time — which closes it and deletes its contents. Your private space as a couple stays completely separate.
Both of you download Parfect for free. One partner creates your shared space and sends the other an invite. From download to paired usually takes under a minute.
Yes — Parfect is built for two. The chat, the nightly prompts, and the shared lists all live between two paired accounts, so the experience only makes sense once your partner joins.
Yes. Parfect is for adults aged 18 and over, since parts of the app — like the fantasies space — are designed for consenting adults in a relationship.
The Parfect website is available in English, Swedish, Norwegian, Danish, German, and Spanish. In the app, you can write to each other in any language you like — it's your private space.
Only the two of you. There are no public profiles, no feeds, and nothing you share is visible to other users. If you choose to open a couple space with friends, that's a separate space — your private chat, fantasies, and photos never move into it.
Yes — messages are encrypted in transit, and the private chat supports optional end-to-end encryption for an extra layer. You can also turn on disappearing messages so sensitive conversations don't stick around.
You can unpair and delete your shared space at any time. Deleting removes the shared content for both partners in line with our Privacy Policy — the space belongs to both of you, so it ends for both of you.
Yes. You can delete your account from inside the app, and your data is removed as described in our Privacy Policy. If anything is unclear, our support team will help you through it.
